It's about the little victories in life

I missed last week so you will be getting a double dose of me this week.
I work with the young women in my ward and we have a “New Beginnings” every year where the parents are invited and we basically introduce the new year and talk about personal progress. Any time the parents are invited it kind of stresses me out because I don’t want them to think it was a waste of time (like I think many meetings are). But I think this one turned out really well. The Olympics was our theme and we talked about how athletes work hard and some over came a lot to get their gold, then we tied it into them by asking them what they needed to do to obtain their “Gold Metal” in life. (so image that described more in-depth for about an hour).
So the next Sunday I asked the girls if they had changed anything in their life that might be hard for them so they could work toward their goals. One girl raised her hand. Let me give you a little background on this girl, she has had a rough life and has no parents living so her grandmother raised her until she decided she couldn’t handle her anymore, now she is in foster care with 4 other girls that are in our young women’s. So she said that she had decided with her foster mom that she would no longer hang out with some friends from her old school “because they were not good kids”.
It is comments like that, that make all the time and effort I spend on these girls worth it.

Okay if you can use your imagination you can see that these are the Olympic Rings

These are some of my cute Young Women in front of the value flags

Parenting is Hard

I just came home from the worst and most frustrating basketball game I have ever seen Brock play. To start it off the other team was really good and played well together in contrast to our team that is all for one and none for all. The first half Brock’s team never even scored a point but to add to my frustration was the fact the “ref” never even blew her whistle unless the time was up. At this age they can’t steal the ball unless it is being passed, but since she wasn’t calling anything they would just go up and tackle each other to get the ball. She was standing right in front of me and I could barely hold my self back from saying “your job is to teach the boys some of the rules of basketball not just to be the time clock“. A good example of what the refs should do was the man last week would blow the whistle if the boy kept dribbling and picking up the ball. He would pause the game a second and tell the boy that he couldn’t do that then he would give the ball back to that same team and they would start play again.
I guess my second reason for my frustration was the fact that Brock seems to have very little motivation, he wants to do the least and have the best results. He has the potentional to be a great basketball player, I think he is better than he should be for the amount of time he puts in practicing. The funny thing is, is that he gets so mad when he doesn’t make every shot or he loses the ball on a fast break. How do you teach your children they have to work for what they want. I know deep down that they have to want it themselves but how do we as parents guide and encourage without pushing them too hard?
I know this is deeper than I usually get but I have been thinking a lot about this because I am giving a talk at New Beginnings about being Strong and of Good Courage. I want to encourage the girls to do things that they might think is hard but in the end it will be worth it.
My last question is how do we light the fire in our children to have a passion about something (besides video games). Does any one have any great insights for me?

I don’t know if any one else does this but I will be watching my kids and think I want to remember this moment forever. They are rarely big momentous occasions they are just everyday normal moments that I would like to remember when they are older. I had one the other day when Jason was reading them a bedtime story.

Jason’s bedtime stories are not the calm sleep inducing bedtime stories that you might expect, they are interactive and loud and most importantly funny (when he decides to adlib). I want my children to remember these times too so I took a picture.

I love doing the wash, well most of the time

I can’t believe it has already been a week. So lately I have been trying to wash anything that can get wet from area rugs, to shoes, to pillows. It all started with me getting a new washer and dryer. The story of getting it is a long one but in short I saw a fabulous deal, bought it online, they sold out, I kept calling and calling telling them I wanted my washer and dryer and one day a month later they showed up.

But after today I was really wishing I had a carpet cleaning after Brooklyn got into my powdered bronzer and scraped out all the contents onto my carpet. For not being a liquid it is surprisingly staining to carpet. Anyone have any tips on how to clean makeup out of carpet?

A Temple is coming to Payson!

This is week #2 in my goal to blog for twenty weeks in a row. My life is very ordinary, which I prefer actually but it is hard to find things interesting to write about. This week was exciting though, the LDS church announced they were building a temple right here in Payson. It is about a mile away from my house, if there wasn’t a house right in front of us we would have a great view.

We have heard rumors for years, I think ever since I have lived here, that they were thinking about building a temple here so it came as quite shock that they really were. I have to say I also wish that dang Target that has been rumored to be built in Spanish Fork would actually be built, but I guess a temple a mile away is just as good.

I have to confess the first things that went through my mind were #1 yeah my house value is going to raise if we want to sale in the next year or so, #2 No more excuses for not getting to the temple anymore #3 Dang maybe we shouldn’t move from Payson. It was probably in that order so I guess you know where my priorities are.

I will post schedule dates and rendered pictures as they come available.

Twenty Dollars

#1

I have been blessed with many things, the English language and everything that goes along with it was not one of them. That makes me dread blogging because unfortunately writing the English language is only way to do it. Having said that I am going to start blogging again. I had a breakthrough last night while watching a movie.

It was not a movie I intended to watch actually. The story is kind of funny and the mistake kind of expensive. Zack, I think, was playing with the remote and pushing all kinds of buttons, and whether he knew what he was doing is still unknown but while he was pushing all the buttons he ordered 4 “movie on demand” movies. Since we had never watched them, I thought we could reverse the charges but Dish has a policy of never reversing the charges because “it asks twice if you really want to rent the movie”. So at $4.99 each we were stuck with an extra $20 fee. Jason and I thought we would make the best of it so we decided to watch one of the two that were still available. The movie ended up being Julie and Julia.

I liked the movie but it was more than that, it hit a cord with me. I am that 30 year old that feels like something is missing. I want to do something that is hard for me and I decided writing is just that. I want to do a whole bunch of other things but I will start with writing.

I have a few rules

#1 The title has to be short ( I over think it ever time) it will be the first thing that comes to mind

#2 I am writing for myself, I will not worry about what others are thinking

#3 I need to write a post at least once a week--the hardest rule of them all.

#4 I have to do it at least 20 weeks

My Spring Updates

I know it is Summer now but I thought I would post what we have been up to from April until June.

This was our way fun trip to Arizona to see our friends from Dental School the Montoyas. We were also able to see one of my roommates from college, Tiffany Larsen. In this picture we were at an old abandoned gold mine.

Brock took first place in the Pine Wood Derby! Although Jason helped, Brock owes most of the thanks to Shane, his uncle.

Zack turned 3, Time really is Flying




Jason and I celebrated our 10th anniversary, I can honestly say I would marry him all over again.

In April I became Young Women's President in our Ward. Shocking I know. This was our girls camp at Koholowo. It rained all three and half days but we still had a blast.

And finally I turned 30! This was a hard birthday, I really never wanted to leave my twenties.

That is what has been going on in our life in Cliff Note form